A mom emailed asking for ideas about how to help an almost ten year old begin to take responsibility for remembering to take his medication in the morning. Here are a few ideas; if you have more, post a comment!
~A friend of mine puts her daughter's medication in a weekly dispenser, and places it beside her daughter's bed. It's the first thing her daughter is supposed to do in the morning - before she gets out of bed.
~And if she forgets...When he was old enough, we had an agreement with the school secretary. If our son forgot, she had a bottle for him at school. He or I could tell her that the dose had been forgotten.
~Use a reminder watch or clock. They're great for any type of medication, but also to remind your child to re-focus, to get back on track, or to do a certain chore. Read more about them at http://www.goaskmom.com/reminder_clocks.html.
By the way, if you've never read it, here's the story about how we agonizingly came to the conclusion to use medication for one of our sons.
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Monday, January 26, 2009
Saturday, January 24, 2009
Gifts of Time
Here's an organizing hint for mom or dad! Many stores are having major clearance sales at this time of year. Make it a habit to visit the clearance section each time you visit a store, and keep an eye out for items you will need for birthdays or (gasp!) even Christmas. Last week my husband came home with a shaving cream warmer he found for $5.00, and it is now stashed in our attic waiting for Father's Day. I found some great sweaters for next fall for almost nothing. The few extra minutes it takes us to see what's on clearance saves us lots of time - and money.
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Spelling Hints Part 5 - Sign Language
Yet another great hint from a mom...
"What we did is looked up the general sign language picture list on the internet and I had my daughter spell the words with sign language and saying the letter as she did... the process of looking for the letter making the letter with her had and saying it set the words in her head. The day of the test I told her to use the camera in her head to look at how she shaped the letters with her hand. We did this in the kitchen as I was making dinner on Mondays ( the day she got the list and practiced all week when we had the chance) She missed 2 to 0 words a week... It really helped."
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"What we did is looked up the general sign language picture list on the internet and I had my daughter spell the words with sign language and saying the letter as she did... the process of looking for the letter making the letter with her had and saying it set the words in her head. The day of the test I told her to use the camera in her head to look at how she shaped the letters with her hand. We did this in the kitchen as I was making dinner on Mondays ( the day she got the list and practiced all week when we had the chance) She missed 2 to 0 words a week... It really helped."
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Thursday, January 22, 2009
Friday, January 16, 2009
Happy Birthday, Ash
When my children were preschoolers, the grandmother across the street from me regularly admonished me to enjoy my time while the boys were little, because it would pass all too quickly. Her gentle prodding shaped the way I faced each day, and I'm grateful for it. Lately, I heard a proverb that summarized Miss Lillie's sentiments. "The minutes drag, but the days fly." It's all too true...
Happy 16th birthday, Ash, my youngest son.
Spelling Hints Part 4 - The Dyslexic Speller
The mother of a child with ADHD and dyslexia writes:
"I must admit that I am often in awe of the inventive variety of ways my 9 year old inattentive dyslexic son chooses to construct the words he uses to express himself in writing. In an odd way it seems to be a bit of an art form.
What kind of spelling are you asking about? Most people think there is only one kind of spelling but for my dyslexic son spelling comes in three flavors. For him son spelling a word verbally, spelling a word on a test (in a list) and spelling that same word in a sentence or story are three separate events. Being able to spell correctly one way one does not guarantee success with the others. For instance if you ask him to verbally spell the word "They" he will reply T-H-E-Y. Have him write the word they on a spelling test and it's a 50/50 shot that he'll write T-H-A-Y then correct it to T-H-E-Y. In his spontaneous writing T-H-A-Y is most commonly used.
~One night when I reminded him to "use the rules for spelling" when he was writing a paragraph he replied that he could forgo the rules and get his thoughts on paper accurately or he could apply the rules and immediately forget what he was going to write. That was when I introduced him to a tape recorder. First he taped his thoughts and then he replayed them as often as necessary to get them down on paper so that his teachers could make sense of it all.
~He often dictates his own words into the tape recorder (often in really funny voices) and then replays them over and over.
~We put the words into a talking spell checker and play hangman against the computer. Using paper and a pen works just as well.
~We write out the words with the troublesome letters written in red. Then we verbally spell these words. Say the letters that you know softly and shout out the red letters (the ones that you just can't seem to remember). Go ahead and really shout. It is fun and lets off stress. Depending where you are you can get some pretty cool echoes too.
~We roll out strings of playdoh and sculpt the words with the strings.
~I pour a carton of salt into a baking dish and have my son write the words in the salt with a wooden skewer or chopstick. (We save a jar of salt just for this.)
~Walking and chanting the words and letters sometimes works.
~Throwing a ball back and forth and saying a letter each time you catch the ball is also a favorite.
~Songs work great. Search the internet for spelling cd's and dvd's.
~Chalk on the driveway and in the street. Big Letters. How far can we make these 10 words stretch.
~Tracing the letters on a piece of sand paper lightly with your finger holds my sons attention pretty well but he doesn't like to sit at the table to do it.
~In the warmer months we write words on the pavement with Super Soakers. The letters evaporate fast when it is hot so mistakes disappear without a trace.
~I have started emphasizing common prefixes and suffixes. Recognizing them and knowing their meanings allows for easier breakdown of an unknown word for both reading and writing. For instance the word preamble has "pre" in the front and "ble" at the end. If you are familiar with these then all that is left is am in the middle.
~Many of my son's teachers have agreed to substituting the "traditional" spelling homework for one of these methods if he emailed them digital pictures of his creations and a short description of what he had done."
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"I must admit that I am often in awe of the inventive variety of ways my 9 year old inattentive dyslexic son chooses to construct the words he uses to express himself in writing. In an odd way it seems to be a bit of an art form.
What kind of spelling are you asking about? Most people think there is only one kind of spelling but for my dyslexic son spelling comes in three flavors. For him son spelling a word verbally, spelling a word on a test (in a list) and spelling that same word in a sentence or story are three separate events. Being able to spell correctly one way one does not guarantee success with the others. For instance if you ask him to verbally spell the word "They" he will reply T-H-E-Y. Have him write the word they on a spelling test and it's a 50/50 shot that he'll write T-H-A-Y then correct it to T-H-E-Y. In his spontaneous writing T-H-A-Y is most commonly used.
~One night when I reminded him to "use the rules for spelling" when he was writing a paragraph he replied that he could forgo the rules and get his thoughts on paper accurately or he could apply the rules and immediately forget what he was going to write. That was when I introduced him to a tape recorder. First he taped his thoughts and then he replayed them as often as necessary to get them down on paper so that his teachers could make sense of it all.
~He often dictates his own words into the tape recorder (often in really funny voices) and then replays them over and over.
~We put the words into a talking spell checker and play hangman against the computer. Using paper and a pen works just as well.
~We write out the words with the troublesome letters written in red. Then we verbally spell these words. Say the letters that you know softly and shout out the red letters (the ones that you just can't seem to remember). Go ahead and really shout. It is fun and lets off stress. Depending where you are you can get some pretty cool echoes too.
~We roll out strings of playdoh and sculpt the words with the strings.
~I pour a carton of salt into a baking dish and have my son write the words in the salt with a wooden skewer or chopstick. (We save a jar of salt just for this.)
~Walking and chanting the words and letters sometimes works.
~Throwing a ball back and forth and saying a letter each time you catch the ball is also a favorite.
~Songs work great. Search the internet for spelling cd's and dvd's.
~Chalk on the driveway and in the street. Big Letters. How far can we make these 10 words stretch.
~Tracing the letters on a piece of sand paper lightly with your finger holds my sons attention pretty well but he doesn't like to sit at the table to do it.
~In the warmer months we write words on the pavement with Super Soakers. The letters evaporate fast when it is hot so mistakes disappear without a trace.
~I have started emphasizing common prefixes and suffixes. Recognizing them and knowing their meanings allows for easier breakdown of an unknown word for both reading and writing. For instance the word preamble has "pre" in the front and "ble" at the end. If you are familiar with these then all that is left is am in the middle.
~Many of my son's teachers have agreed to substituting the "traditional" spelling homework for one of these methods if he emailed them digital pictures of his creations and a short description of what he had done."
Visit our website at http://www.goaskmom.com .
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